Shabbat Chanukah 7th December, morning |
Special Chanukah Breakfast |
Shabbat Chanukah 7th December 5.15-6.30 pm (after Shabbat) |
Family Chanukah Party In the downstairs communal hall) |
Sunday 8th December 8.30 pm |
"Klezmer & Cocktails Under the
Arches" See announcement below |
Monday 9th December 8.15 pm |
HAMPSTEAD SYNAGOGUE ADULT EDUCATION SERIES: Rabbi Michael Harris "Creation & Evolution" 19 Palace Court, 250 Finchley Road, NW3 |
Sunday 8th December at 8.30 pm (doors open 8 pm)
Venue: The Garage, No 2 Maygrove Road, London NW6
Tickets in advance (Contact: Aviva Goldschmidt) UKP6.50
(Members/Students/Unemployed)
& UKP8.50 (non-members), or at the door (supplement of UKP2 per person)
Regents College? Does anyone know where that is? I was sure that someone was mixing up the venue with the cricket match? But no, Charles assured me, we were going to stay in Regents College Oxford for our first WHAM away weekend. So, on a lovely warm Friday afternoon, laden up with a dozen freshly baked challas (did they smell good!), food, children, bicycles and a dog we headed out in the rush-hour traffic to Oxford.
By the time we had worked out the correct exit to take off the motorway and made our way through the late afternoon traffic into Oxford we were all a bit weary. However after quickly unpacking and settling in the babysitter, we perked up and a cheerful group made its way to the L'Chaim Society premises in time to welcome in the Shabbat and with a minyan for a Friday night service. Lionel was heard to exclaim that for once the minyan was waiting for him rather than he waiting for a minyan!
Although Rabbi and Mrs Boteach were not in Oxford they had ensured a warm welcome. The L'Chaim premises were available to us and supper was ready and waiting. Our guest speaker failed to show, but never mind. We were going to have a fun weekend without any upsets. A poor Oxford lecturer who had simply come along for a Friday night service was cajoled, with the help of a little sweet talking and a lot of whiskey, to be our impromptu speaker. I don't know what the absent speaker had planned to say but Robert came up trumps and was very interesting to listen to.
After a comfortable night in student rooms at the college, which felt just like being at camp, we woke to the boisterous noises of the children who had declined to sleep in. Bleary eyed, we sent the men off to start the Shabbat morning service at the L'Chaim centre. Our Shabbat lunch speakers were Peter and Harriet Getzels. They were responsible for the recently shown television programme on Shmuley Boteach. After answering initial questions on the making of the programme, we had a lively discussion on Jewish programmes and the portrayal of Jews in the media.
We were blessed with wonderful weather all weekend. After the obligatory Shabbat afternoon shloff, the more energetic weekenders, led by our blue-badge guide, Tony Metzer, embarked on a walking tour of the Oxford sites. This was followed by seudah on the college lawns.
After Shabbat, some families sadly had to leave, but the rest of us made our way to what we were assured was the best pub in the area. The Trout proved to be a tranquil, pretty place on the river where we could drink a toast to a lovely weekend. We put together a makeshift supper at L'Chaim while we waited for Rabbi Boteach to arrive from London to conduct the Selichot service. This was followed by a team quiz. A few excelled at answering the questions set by Rabbi Boteach while some of us simply gave up and dozed off.
After an "eggie" breakfast over Sunday newspapers, we began packing. This required everyone's skills and expertise . As it was St Giles' day, the main road in Oxford was closed off and navigation skills to get cars from L'Chaim back to Regents College and out of Oxford were much in need. The next skill was required when we realised that Lucy had gone off cycling and the key left with Charles did not open their room. There was no caretaker on site either. If you ever find yourself in a similar predicament Simon Bruckheimer is your man (nudge nudge, wink wink, say no more!!!)
At last we were ready to move on to our next destination - Blenheim Palace. But not before we had to find Andrew's car which he had trustingly left in one of the Park and Rides outside Oxford. Fortunately for him - and the insurance company - it was still there and we made our way to meet Lucy and Jackie who had energetically cycled ahead to Blenheim. After a tour around the house and a delicious cream tea, a weary but happy group made their way back to London.
Thank you to Charles for his efficient organisation and to everyone: adults, children and Moshe, for contributing to a wonderful weekend. It was an outstanding success and the atmosphere was magic. Even those who had bravely come knowing no-one, felt wholly part of the group by the end of the weekend. For those of you who missed out, look out for the next one. It really is worth joining in.
Debra KrollThe Talmud records the famous dispute concerning how to light the Chanukah candles.
According to the School of Shammai, we should kindle eight lights on the first night of Chanukah, seven on the second, and so on downward, until we are left with the last night of the festival with just one solitary light.
The School of Hillel disagreed. They maintained that one candle should be lit on the first night of Chanukah, two on the second, and so on upwards, until the Chanukiya burns brightly on the last night of Chanukah with all eight lights.
Of course, the halacha is according to the opinion of the School of Hillel. And so we add one candle each night of Chanukah.
In one of my first talks in WHAM, on the last Rosh Hashannah but one, my theme was "one step at a time". We should take on one new mitzvah at a time, constantly, but gradually, seeking to achieve greater heights in Jewish knowledge and commitment. Chanukah embodies this message more beautifully than any other festival. We kindle one light, then another, then yet another, until the whole Chanukiya beams out glorious, radiant brightness on the last night of Chanukah.
So Chanukah, like life, is a journey towards greater light. One light at a time, one step at a time, until brightness surrounds us and we come as close as we can to fulfilling the unique potential that each of us possesses. If we can make the effort, G-d promises to smooth the path.
Chanukah Sameach.
Rabbi Michael HarrisEditor's note: Debra is leaving WHAM this year to live in Israel. We wish her every success in her move.
NOTE: Use raw eggs with caution when entertaining pregnant women, small children, elderly relatives and those with pre-existing illness.
WEEK 1 | WEEK 2 | WEEK 3 | WEEK 4 | WEEK 5 | |
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9.15-10.00 | Charles Daniels | Dan Cohen | Andrew Hougie | Mike Davis | Geoffrey Zelin |
10.00-10.30 | Marguerite Brodtman | Lucy Stone | Deborah Frieze | Fran Raphael | Aviva Goldschmidt |
10.30-11.00 | Lionel Davis | Charles Coleman | J M Barsam | Geoffrey Charin | David Brodtman |
11.00-11.30 | Mark Berman | Tony Schneider | Lawrence Rose | Lyall Cresswell | Keith Malkinson |
11.30-END | Stephen Mendel | Daniel Shaw | David Smith | Paul Jacobus | David Sinclair |
23 Nov | 30 Nov | 7 Dec | 14 Dec | 28 Dec | |
4 Jan | 11 Jan | 18 Jan | 25 Jan | 1 Feb | |
8 Feb | 15 Feb | 22 Feb | 1 Mar | 8 Mar | |
15 Mar | 22 Mar | 29 Mar | 5 Apr | 12 Apr | |
19 Apr | 26 Apr | 3 May | 10 May | 17 May | |
24 May | 31 May | 7 Jun | 14 Jun | 28 Jun |
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Geoffrey ZelinHere's another anagram of a WHAM member's name that should baffle you all:
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